Hi,
In New South Wales, Australia, funeral directors have organised online access via zoom sessions. This has allowed the older generation to attend remotely, while the younger set accompany the coffin. At one stage in 2020 in our family, we were restricted to 10 people at a funeral ... so the widow attended, the adult children attended and on the remaining seats there were floral tributes with cards highlighting the names of the people who sent them. Funeral director organised close up vision of cards. We knew we were represented here. Funeral director staff were excellent, patient, kind and the widow has praised them. The older generation who zoomed included deceaseds brothers and sisters.
So the widow, her children and some of the grandchildren attended, and some of the grandchildren did not, .... restricted numbers. No one squabbled, everyone cared for the grieving widow.
JM