Trouble is I'm not actually quite sure of the surname. I've even met the woman, but OH's Mum used to talk about her a lot, but never saw any of her names written down, either the stage names or the "real" ones, and not sure if "real" was maiden or married.
-You've dredged up a wonderful collection of "Hettie"s, between you! I'm sure there's an anthology of Hetties there waiting to be written.
Thank you all, again.