« Reply #7 on: Tuesday 20 July 21 13:56 BST (UK) »
You'll know when a marriage has been blessed by the kirk. Midlothian county had trouble getting couples to marry in the kirk, probably because it was cheaper to have an irregular marriage with the proceedings noted by the local sheriff..
Here's an example of irregular marriage confessions by various couples.
Aberdeen: Findlay-Shirras,McCarthy: MidLothian: Mason,Telford,Darling,Cruikshanks,Bennett,Sime, Bell: Lanarks:Crum, Brown, MacKenzie,Cameron, Glen, Millar; Ross: Urray:Mackenzie: Moray: Findlay; Marshall/Marischell: Perthshire: Brown Ferguson: Wales: McCarthy, Thomas: England: Almond, Askin, Dodson, Well(es). Harrison, Maw, McCarthy, Munford, Pye, Shearing, Smith, Smythe, Speight, Strike, Wallis/Wallace, Ward, Wells;Germany: Flamme,Ehlers, Bielstein, Germer, Mohlm, Reupke