My daughter has a very unusual name, one of those names that people either love or hate! We were considerate though and it can be shortened to a very pretty and 'normal' form, and we also gave her a 'normal' middle name, so if she really hates it when she gets older she can shorten it, or go by her middle name if she prefers.
When I was pregnant and we were going through name ideas we decided very quickly that we didn't want a family name (it seemed such a minefield - which name do you choose, from which side of the family, will relatives be offended if their name isn't chosen and another relatives name is etc..), plus all our family names seemed quite boring and old-fashioned to us!
We then started throwing more unusual names about and most of the ones I suggested my husband didn't like and vice-versa. Then I suggested this particular name and my husband looked at me and said "yes, that's it, I like it" and the decision was made.
We also settled on an unusual boys name too, Aric Oliver, although that was far more difficult because the name doesn't sit particularly well with our surname and we were still wondering if it would be too much of a mouthful by the time I went into labour, but then I had a girl anyway
