Hi frirish
OK, granted 1881 says born Portsmouth Hampshire, but what about 1871, 1861 and 1851? Is there a birth in Hampshire for John Tollerfield or variant between 1845 and 1850?
Mary A. Vale 48 mother-in-law.
It stands to reason that Pauline the 26 year old has the surname Vale.
Not necessarily. The relationship is to the head of the household, so it would seem that Mary A is Pauline's mother. But what if she was widowed and had remarried to become Vale? Have you ruled that out. CaroleW raised this possibility before.
The marriage date that you quoted in 1873, 9th April clearly shows John Tolerfield marrying Pauline Lethbridge. I can't see Vale/Vail on that record. It stretches credulity that there is another Tollerfield marriage on the same date in the same registration district to another Pauline. So I'm wondering where the information that her parents were William Vail and Lydia Jane Hartley come from that you quoted? And Lydia Jane is obviously not Mary A Vale.
I can see William Vale (mariner) and Mary A Vale his wife listed in 1891 in the same household as the Tollerfields. But it doesn't give the relationship to the head of the household, so that doesn't really help. I've not been able to find William prior to this with any certainty or Mary A.
The children's birth registrations are in the official GRO indexes
https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/I've managed to check three of them, but the site is having a melt-down this evening and keeps throwing up a time-out error
John Edward mms Vale
Pauline mms Lethbridge
Marion (1889) mms Lethbridge
So this would seem to be where the confusion arises. Someone gave the registrar that information when they registered the births. Unfortunately, without sight of the certificates to see who the informant was in each case, it is very hard to tell why that information was given.
However this does not help you with your original query about Hampshire versus Dorset Tollerfields. I'm still looking for the Hampshire John in the GRO indexes and he just isn't there.
You are correct in thinking that Portsmouth was a magnet for those looking for work, but it was largely connected with Royal Navy vessels rather than commercial ships.
Nell