The 'let's get the second wave over with' is fine if you decide to ignore all those tens of thousands of people who have been stuck in limbo since the end of March, awaiting life-saving surgery and/or cancer treatment. I reproduce below (with her permission) my daughter's post on another forum detailing her plight and her feelings. She's in her twenties, and today is her birthday. Not only is she in pain but she's also in despair at people's behaviour, and the total lack of concern for those who, like her, are desperate for the hospitals to commence surgery and treatment once again.
"It's my birthday tomorrow, and I probably should feel somewhat festive.
But I'm really not.
I am absolutely desolate.
This is far from how I'd hoped I'd see my year turn over.
The continual comments I see posing the very abrupt removal of coronavirus safeguards as some individualistic decision "Well just stay at home and take precautions and let other people do what they want" utterly ignores the impact you have on other people.
Even beyond the obvious fact that IT IS SPREAD BY PEOPLE, take my situation.
As most folks who know me know I've been waiting on some upper GI tract surgery since February, which was cancelled in March because of the need to free up resources for COVID-19. I was completely understanding about this even when the staff member telling me was extremely apologetic.
You know, you have to make sacrifices, it's a global pandemic.
It's been hard.
It's been cr*p.
In my initial illness I suffered from acute pancreatitis, which I have a high chance of developing again without surgery.
I've lost 18 kilos in weight, chunks of my hair have fallen out, and I have to go about my day in the knowledge that anything I eat could potentially send me on another trip to A&E.
And I'm by no means the only person in this kind of situation.
I have zero resentment towards the NHS. I was taken great care of when I was initially unwell in hospital, and I know that they are doing their best in extremely tough circumstances.
Who DO I resent?
People who are pushing and pushing for faster openings, faster reduction in distance, ignoring scientific advice and leaning on 'but the economy' argument as if another wave isn't going to tank it all over again.
The same people who've trotted out the idea of people like me waiting for treatment as a sympathy ploy numerous times.
Because here I am, months along, hoping to get a call for a reschedule, whilst I watch the R-rate creeping up.
And even aside from the needless death.
On top of the already needless death.
You know what hospitals will have to do again with a case rise?
Keep electives shut down.
Unwillingly signing me up for more months of trying to keep out of hospital, something I only wish was guaranteed.
But you know, people seem really pleased the pubs are opening again.
So.
Consequences be damned, I guess."