Thanks, Chris,
I have been checking BathBMD but not Wiltshire- good idea! Maybe I can find his father's death somewhere as well. We really don't know anything about them which is a disadvantage- his wife's family (Fry) I lucked out on in the Iwerne Courtney chuch baptisms- but I knew they were married there!
Anyway- I will keep trying, thank you for your suggestions,
Rosemary C.