« Reply #11 on: Monday 01 June 20 16:03 BST (UK) »
I would also try looking for her or any younger relatives on social media.
Facebook is often very helpful. I was able to work out my connection to some DNA matches by looking them up on FB.

Pay, Kent.
Barham, Kent.
Cork(e), Kent.
Cooley, Kent.
Barwell, Rutland/Northants/Greenwich.
Cotterill, Derbys.
Van Steenhoven/Steenhoven/Hoven, Nord Brabant/Belgium/East London.
Kesneer Belgium/East London
Burton, East London.
Barlow, East London
Wayling, East London
Wade, Greenwich/Brightlingsea, Essex.
Thorpe, Brightlingsea, Essex