Hi,
Thanks for your response.You have a heritage that you can be proud of.
Regarding opinions etc. It does seem that these days many people are running around in tartan kilts with clan crests and so on.
If I’m not mistaken clan means something like children of and not family.These original question was to try and get a consensus of opinion to help me sort the wheat from the chaff.
These are some conclusions:
The border reivers would have not referred to themselves as clans.They were ‘riding families’.Some people appear to cling to the ‘17 unruly clans’ document as proof.Surely there would be hundreds if they were clans like the Highland ones?
They had ‘Heidmen’, which yes functioned like chiefs but we’re not chiefs in the ‘clan’ sense.
Lairds existed without a doubt.These appear to have been probably large scale land owners and not have the same powers as English Lords.I could be wrong on this though.
I feel part of the problem is that post Walter Scott’s recreation of What Scottishness is, the culture of the peoples of the border has been replaced with tartans,kilts and bagpipes etc.These were all Highland Scottish customs.The highlanders we’re often feared hated and certainly not trusted by Lowland Scots.
With this in mind, wouldn’t be better to try and remember and preserve the border culture as it was rather than replace it with something that would have been quite alien to these folk?
If you think about it, isn’t it a kind of cultural appropriation to adopt Highland culture as a Lowland one? And in doing so betraying the very ancestry we are trying to uncover and preserve?
Some people also have romantic notions of what reivers actually were.These days they would be called gangsters.Extortion, blackmail (protection rackets) theft and murder.All hallmarks of top class gangsters?
I think in our quest to find out about our ancestry we also want to find some sense of belonging.In doing so, there seems to be a danger of distorting the truth of the past and using historical bias in our judgment.Trying to gather lots of opinions to help form my own has been part of this question.Not to offend or upset.These opinions should not be set in stone either as when more information and new ideas come to light.Opinions should be adjusted taking everything into account.