Hi there, yes I know it's her death because I got the DC last week.
Ok, re the marital status - that jail link seems ever more likely to account for his absence, because on the 1861 census she definitely lists herself as widowed.
So I knew died between 1840 and 1861 - just not sure exactly when yet.
Wow, she must've been one very powerful woman to manage under the conditions she did!!!!