Hi all, thanks for all of the hard work put into this research 4 or 5 years ago. I am impressed with the cooperation of the members. I have just joined today after finding this thread and am amazed to see the same research results that I have just found myself over the last month. I am helping my cousin Liam Murphy from Clonmel with his research into this family and he also did a lot of legwork himself over the years examining RIC police records for Edmond(Edward) and military records for William Murphy. Liam is a great grandson of Wm D Murphy and his first wife Ellen Magrath(McGrath) who died in Malta. Their 2 year old daughter Mary Ellen was sent back to Ireland with a nurse to be reared by her step-grandmother Kate McGrath, a widow and 2nd wife of Laurence McGrath and so stepmother of the deceased Ellen. That baby survived and married another unrelated Murphy (James) in 1922 in Clonmel. Their son was Liam's father.
William(1862) definitely had an older brother John born in Fethard in 1860, but I am not sure whether the 6 or 7 children born in Thurles after 1862 (Andrew, Martin, Edmond, etc.) to an Edmond Murphy and Margaret Sweeney are the same family ; they could be but it is also possible to have a couple with exactly the same 2 names in another town in County Tipperary. Maybe Edmond (RIC policeman) was transferred.
A possibility on first army enlistment is that William borrowed John's 1860 date of birth in order to join up in 1878 when he was only 16.
William left the army in South Africa and worked in the Bloemfontein prison service. He married a much younger wife in 1911 and they had 3 sons. They divorced in 1927 and she remarried in 1928. I don't know if William ever returned to Ireland (to visit) or if he had a 3rd wife but he did live into his 90's and died at Lichtenburg (a mining area near Johannesburg) in 1954. His death cert says intended burial place was Lichtenburg Municipal Cemetery and so I have created a FindAGrave memorial for him there with a request for a volunteer to identify and photograph the grave.
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/285101970/william-desmond-murphy