Hello

Here is a little bit to get you started on tracing your British side, it looks like there are a few puzzles for you to investigate.
You can find Benjamin with his first wife Elizabeth here in 1861 also with them is Eliza Hutchinson... given as niece
1861 = Village of Wybunbury, Nantwich, Cheshire - RG09 /Piece 2617 /Folio 141 / Page 16
GRO Index
WOULIDGE, ARTHUR ALBERT MASON
Mother's maiden name = HUTCHINSON
GRO Reference:
1867 J Quarter in RADFORD Volume 07B Page 185
Marriage for Benjamin Woulidge & Eliza Hutchinson=
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NN52-W6LI have seen the parish register page.....
Marriage 4th June
1867 - Trinity Church, Derby, Derbyshire. - after Banns. by George French.
Benjamin Mason WOULIDGE, full age, Widower, occupation = Railway Porter - Address: Traffic Street.
Father = Joseph
MASON, occupation: Hosier.
Eliza HUTCHINSON, aged 19yrs, Spinster, - - - - - , Traffic St.
Father: William Hutchinson, farm Labourer.
Witnesses = William Elliott & Frances Hutchinson
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