If someone has been married 3 times but never divorced his 1st wife are the other 2. Marriages legal.
He was my fathers brother he married in his stepfathers surname 1st marriage and his real name for the 2nd and 3rd marriages he was down as bachelor and 3rd marriage as divorced.
Thank you for answering 1st marriage 1939 no divorce 2nd marriage 1948 divorce 3rd marriage 1958
Hi there,
I am sure you would have checked and that you are certain your Uncle was married three times. So may I ask some questions for you to ponder over in perhaps a reflective way.
Do you have the marriage certificates for each of those three? You mention the first marriage was using his step-father’s surname.
Are you sure that that’s actually your Uncle, and not someone else by that name? Have you considered checking further, eg with freebmd indexes or similar… If it is definitely your uncle, then perhaps as others have mentioned you need to consider if the bride was free to marry …
You mention the second marriage was using his real name and he was noted there as a bachelor. If the first marriage was not valid, or if the first marriage was not your uncle, then this second marriage was actually his first, so he would have been a bachelor at that time.
Have you considered contacting the witnesses to gently ask them for any background knowledge of his marital status? Also, I am sure that using a step surname does NOT invalidate a marriage; and that a person can be known by any name they choose at that time, provided they are not attempting to deceive or be a fraud etc… So whether they use a step name, or a birth surname, or any other name should not affect the validity of a marriage. A name change does not need to be formalised, but a deed poll does change a name immediately rather than by the less formal way of 'by usage'.
Likely there were children of all three marriages, and likely many of them are still living. They may well be aware of the circumstances of their respective set of parents, and there may well be sensitive issues.
These people are your first cousins, so have you considered speaking with any them? JM