Thanks very much folk's,I think I can assume Mary Metcalfe to be my Gtx3 Grandmother.Sorry I was a
year out with Elijah(Edward?) death.He did indeed marry Sophia Green,apart from Edward they had
son Alfred and my GT Grandmother Sarah ellen,all three children were in Industrial schools in Newcastle
in the 1881 census and Sophia is knowhere to be found.The big Mystery is with Sarah Ellen,She married William John Kirton in Gateshead in 1889 the family are in the 1891 and 1901 census including my Grandmother also Sophie,the mystery is that Sarah ellen re-married in 1908 to a Robert Woolhouse in
Newcastle age correct and on this and her previous certificate Father Edward Wayman occupation Barman
was given yet William John Kirton was still alive until 1913 although in the workhouse in 1911,also in the
1911 census Grandmothers sister Minnie was with Sarah ellen (Nellie) and Robert as a visitor.Very strange!