So just to recap, given there were 2 Emma Lees born in Itteringham in 1862, one in Q1, the Burton Lee, and the other in Q2, the Hopper Lee, I'm sort of prioritising the Hopper Lee as she's got form for illegitimate children. However moving to 1881, one is a dairymaid in Horstead with Stanninghall, St Faiths, Norfolk, aged 19, and one is a Housemaid age 21 in Norwich. Any tips and hints as to I narrow down which one is which? There's also an Emma Lee b. 1862 bQ3 in Mitford, mmn Hall which looks to be 4 miles from Itteringham.
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