If it was the same Thomas, what happened to Jenny and when and where did Thomas marry Mary?
I think Jenny is possibly burial as Jane wife of Thomas Feb 1894. Not sure.
Marriage to Mary Lancaster 3 March 1811
BUT. Hold on
Just found this
Mary Irvine
Event Type: Marriage
Event Date: 27 Jun 1819
Parish: Lancaster, Lancashire, England
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Spouse: John Carr
Mary is a widow.
So...
Mary TEBAY married Thomas IRVINE 1811
Thomas died bef 1819
Mary remarried to John CARR who was thus stepfather to Joseph Septimus Irvine 😀😀😀