Carrbridge,
If you go back to your posts where you mention this person, and just change it to his initials rather than his full name, someone may be able to assist you further via PM (personal message) - that is they might be able to help you without mentioning him by name on this public forum. Regarding your subject heading - you could perhaps change that to something like “seeking assistance with possible living person” or something more catchy.

It is fine to mention birth dates and places, and immigration details - we just can’t mention the names of anyone still living.
So you can still get assistance off line.
