Hi  Graeme ,   HI Hallmark, 
Graeme , I lookred up the ballingarry grave yard info and eventually found one John Alexander, there are a mumber of others also recorded on the headstone but none ring any bells.   I'll keep the in fo though as it may prove useful some time or other.  
Hallmark , the grave-diggers is a good idea.   Who and where.
I have the name of a chap who is some sort of caretaker for Shanrahan Historical Graveyard.  
The address is a tad short on info. no postcode/zip and only the district. 
there were two sets of numbers - look like phone but do not say so - one could be local and the other mobile.   
There is also a hardware shop in Clogheen  Main Street and the owners are purported to be the local people to contact. I have emailed without success there.  
I shall re think these and see what 
thanks for the ideas. 
Cheers, Essnell