thanks heywood, no I'd not found (nor I admit looked for) Ada in 1881.
Yes I just found the other thread today.
Hope the chap who posted originally responds even though he'd not been active beyond that thread back in 2012.
I am becoming increasingly interested in this family.
The DNA matches with the descendant of William Edward marr. CARTER are gradually getting narrowed down towards this line of her ancestry, although we aren't quite fully there yet.