What became of the first two children? Just because Edward was the one who registered the death doesn't mean the other two weren't around and involved in some way.
I'm thinking that if we know where they were in 1954, that might be somewhere to focus on. If they need tracking down, names, dates of birth, spouses etc etc would all help.
Good thinking, Arthur. Her first child, Constance Evelyn Asthill AUSTON, my maternal grandmother, was born in Newark 1895. She and her younger brother Francis Wentworth Asthill AUSTON, were adopted in infancy by Benjamin and Edith Bedwell of Earsham Norfolk.
Apart from a stint in the army, Francis appears to have stayed in Norfolk. My parents took me to see him back in the early 60's. I remember going but nothing else.
Constance turns up on the 1911 census, aged 16, living (shock, horror) with her mother in Woodbine Place. Here, Annie had taken in four boarders.
In 1917, Constance is living in Marsden, Huddersfield from where she married in 1919. She gave birth to my mother in 1925 after moving to Horton, Bradford. There she stayed for the rest of her life until her death in 1968.
So, in 1954, while Annie was deceased in Leeds, her eldest was in Bradford, the middle child was (I believe) in Norfolk and her youngest was in Dumfries.
Nothing was ever spoken about Annie by either my mother or my grandmother. I didn't know of her existence until I found my grandmother's birth certificate. That's when the hunt started !!
My grandmother always referred to her adoptive parents, the Bedwells, as her Mum and Dad. Their son, Hennes, died on the Somme and she always referred to him as her brother. I'll be visiting his grave in the CWGC Pozieres, in July next year.
Thinking about it, I had knowledge of Francis, but there was never a mention of another brother. I visited Scotland a couple of times with my parent but, although Edward Alexander was alive then, we never went to see him. I honestly believe my grandmother and mother had no knowledge of his existence. Yet he was the one who registered Annie's death......
It's true what they say, Arthur: you can pick your friends, you're stuck with your family.
David
ps apologies for the length of the reply.