thanks Regorian - I found the photos some of the 68th wearing the furs - that makes sense now with what you have told me. I have a fair bit to possibly believe that he was in the 68th but if I can't put him on leave 1854 early then I don't think I can confirm it was him. I know the 68th went from Malta to Crimea and wondered if they stopped on the ship in Southampton but think I am reaching somewhat. Just wish they had put his fuller details in his children's birth records, but even then he is just listed as a shoemaker, no mention of him being a solider, only one lone baptism record Christmas Day 1845 saying he was a soldier.
Thanks for the information, if nothing else it has delved me into the Crimean war research which has been really interesting to read and learn about.