WOW to be honest I didn't expect all the replies, and yes I think I asked here a few years ago but couldn't remember to be sure. I'm probably not alone but my family tend to use other names, middle names, 95% of people call me Fred, my dad was Fred I'm Robert, my dad was known as Sam because he looked like his grandfather, it doesn't help. If I now add these details to the Ancestry "Rudge" line it should offer me the chance to connect with the family again. I think I followed a wrong Rudge line and lost track and didn't look for anyone emigrating, no hint came up suggesting that. This / these Rootschat groups are incredibly helpful, a friends mother had a family story of her grandmothers uncle Joe Foster being a gambler in the US who died in a gun fight, she wanted to know more. I asked the US group and they confirmed it all, San Antonio 1884. Cheers Fred