Looking for a Pilot (NOT Pirate) JAMES HAYDEN b. 1806?

[cguil_uk]

Do your relatives notes give a baptism for James

I have just had a look and she gives a burial date of - 21 Mar 1848 - at the age of 42 in the IoW.

So we know that his mother's name was Hanna b. 1787 according to 1841, 1851, Census for the IoW (with a query on the maiden name of Draper) and, according to my relative, the father was William Hayden. Her d. 04 AUG 1862, she is listed in Ancestry.

In the 1851 Census, she is listed as living with her 4 Grandsons and one granddaughter. Her other 3 granddaughters were living with their mother Jemima at another address. no sign of James which ties in with his death in 1848. However, in the 1841 census, she is living with her daughter-in-law and children but no James.
https://search.findmypast.co.uk/record?id=GBC/1851/0006472105
https://search.findmypast.co.uk/record?id=GBC/1851/0006472111

[rosie99]

Burial for Hannah Hayden shows as 10 August 1862.  Probate Index and newspaper both give date of death as 7th August 1862.  There is only one Hannah Hayden showing on the index at that time in IoW
Deaths Sep qtr 1862 
Hayden    Hannah       
I.Wight    2b   284
GRO index gives age as 76.

Probate index give an address of Sea View.

1861 she is staying with Nephew James who was born around the same time as your James.
https://search.findmypast.co.uk/record?id=GBC/1861/0004226491
He states she is unmarried which ties in with Spinster on the probate notice.