Hi Sue,
Selina Wilton (name Wilton) by birth. Her parents were Thomas Wilton & Elizabeth Payne.
Thank you so much for posting the links to the obituaries!! Very interesting indeed. Those dates and info definitely match up to the information I have on Stephen Feening's parents. I guess from here I try and find out if Stephen went to America soon after??
Selina
Yes, I did see my error with the wrong Selina and have noted it.
I suggest you post a summary of what you know and put it on the USA board of Rootschat. If there are records of him, they may turn up there.
I do suspect though he may have used an assumed name and this will make tracking hard.
ADDING, as a reflection.
I do find it surprising that his "respectable" family must have had full knowledge of the marriage, and knowledge of his whereabouts ( at least by 1919, and I suspect all along)

After all, the papers were full of it.

one wonders at the reasoning here.