In 1861 she is at Etherley Lane, Escomb, Durham, Widow, with 4 of her children, Alice Swallwell, Elizabeth Swallwell, John H Swallwell, Jane A Swallwell.
Looks like she may of remarried in 1867 to either John Balmer or Robert Robson Bousfield.
Oct-Nov-Dec 1867 Registration District Auckland, Durham. 10A 233