Hi this is Genegenee's cousin, M, writing ---I've tried Cork
Ancestry Project, but they can't find John Roche baptised in 1841 --they have one in 1844, in St Mary's and St. Anne's --and another in 1844 in St. Patricks. The one from St M & A's has his mother as Sarah Murphy --none of his children has the name Sarah -so I discounted this baptismal record. The one from St. Patrick's had John Roche as the father and Hanora Murphy as his mother --but I don't know if this was MY John Roche's parents --he was to have been born in 1841 according to both his marriage and death certs.
On John Roche and Angela McCarthy's marriage cert (for St. Ann and Mary Shandon - North Cathedral now)--it doesn't show their birthplaces --only their residence at the time of their marriage, which on 23 July 1864, was 34 Dominick Street, Cork City. And the same thing on his death cert --15 Jan 1866 --it only shows his place of death - 2 Brogue Market Street, in Cork City.
Any further suggestions as to where to look next?? John Roche was a very common name. I've tried the "relatives in Ireland" route --they don't have much info that they are willing to share. Thanks M in Canada