HI All, thanks for the help. I did find them in the census for 1851, got it off Scotlands People, did not know there was a free place to look for census, so thanks for that. The only Mary McEwen I could find marrying a Wallace was to a Donald Wallace in 1889, my Mary would have been 46, so don't think it's her. I do think the 1871 census is correct, could not find them in 1861 or 1881. John McEwen died 1886. Still on the hunt for Mary, as there has to be something to the story that she died from wounds she received nursing in Ladysmith south Africa after the Boer War so that would have been after the siege, so maybe 1899 to 1902, it was in the Daily Express,Would that be a Glasgow paper? But can't research without a last name. I'm getting all this information from my mother's journal, so just trying to build on the little information I have.