My friend, kindly, did visit the cemetery and found the correct spot with the use of the photo that my grandmother took. The gravestones either side that were in the photo were there which was why she knew she had the correct spot, but my great-great-grandmother’s gravestone was gone. She checked with an official but the grave did not show on the records. Her final touch was to place a bouquet of flowers and take a photo for me. I was so touched.