Hi all,
It's been a long time since this thread was replied to, but I just wanted to tell Percy and Prue that it was indeed a photo in the lady's hand. I had a computer crash not long after I posted the main photo here, and forgot to mention that I had fiddled about with the left hand and saw she had a card in it. I even managed (I think) to get an impression of a very vague mini portrait, but of course I lost all my attempts back then and I can't recall what I did to get to that point.
At any rate, I also believe the woman is NOT a Granelli after all. The photo was in possession of my own granny and I think it is one of HER grandmothers, either Janet Main Easton, or Jane Inglis/McLaughlin Cotterill. After doing a comparison of all my family photos for resemblances I favour the latter. Also she was born in about 1842, whereas Janet Main Easton was born about 1847-1852.
If this is a mourning portrait, both ladies qualify as Janet had lost her mother in 1884, and Jane had lost a son in 1890. Either of these ladies make more sense to me...why would my granny keep a photo of her X's side of the family.
Oh, and as for the post from ccc333, well that was a reunion story and a half...my dad is now in touch with his half brothers that he had not seen in 40 years.

Nina