Hello Heather,
thank you for your welcome.
My relative's name is Charles Wilfrid Paris. He was steward on the barque Longfellow of St John, New Brunswick ; the vessel found by JCmac is the right one. During the journey from Bordeaux to Cardiff in november 1887 he was charged (and discharged) with a manslaughter on board (seen on South Wales Echo, december, 1887, 22nd and ).
these are the only facts I know about him. Nothing about his birth, death. Just one more thing : he has disappeared from France during the year 1889. His family never had news from him.
I hope I will find some facts about him in the crew list of the Longfellow.