Just lovely, thank you Chris. I did search for Isaac on didn't a grave but he didn't show up.
His Son Gervais still lived at Cranbrook Cottages, Worlds End Lane, Green St Green, Orpington, in 1911 & died in1931-Bromley- which may mean anything.
The memorial mentions Isaac only as being her spouse in a calculated relationship way- as in being mentioned as the spouse of the deceased.
I'd very much like to see what can be seen of any wording on her stone. Not much mentioned in the list I posted about.
Many thanks again Chris, after finding her - after a wrongly named surname in 1851 I lost her too soon.
Wendy
P.s. I had not seen those burial registers when I looked at St.Giles, Now I find also Gervase listed.