My goodness don't some people have an ignorant attitude to family research

. Perhaps you should use one of my frequent phrases....
don't do your family history if you aren't prepared for some unpleasantness along the way.
I gave lots of info about a second marriage of one of my female ancestors - the 2nd husband committed suicide. It was well covered in the press of the day but the person seeking information would not accept it and yes you've guessed it, she was a descendant.
I'd be putting an accurate public tree online with an untraceable username.
I'll have a look at my other resources for you.
Cando