Hi,
Thanks for the added information - can you enlarge on the children please - needing years they were born, or at least christened (although, I realise a Christening might occur much later than a birth)
You list:
James, John, Catheren and David spring * there last name is Findlay
(not sure what you mean by 'spring'?From Family search, I see the following issue (2) of the ones you mentioned, to parents David FINDLAY & Isabella GRIEVE:
1) James FINDLAY, chr 1785, Dalrymple
2) Cathren FINDLAY, chr 1786, Dalrymple
There is also: a Margrat FINLAY, 1788, Straiton, with parents of same names, who isn't on your list?
What are the dates and places. for sons John & David?
Cheers
AMBLY