My kits just arrived and my friends came yesterday. She's sent hers in and mine will go in today. I ordered the kit online Tuesday. It said 5-7 days so that's good.My brothers and nephew match at approx 5 generations with my friend. We have areas in common but not sure whether there is a particular area to focus on but most of areas are gonna fall in the same area as central England so it may not help. There's a bit of Irish come up as well so let's see what happens. I may get a brother to do one for the male line. I have one brother who won't test. If his work mates told him to do it he sure would but I suspect the reverse has happened! 2 of my brothers tested as well as mom and my sister on ancestry, I 'd like him too but then I'd have a decision to make as who to do the y line! So may have to do living DNA if he changes his mind. I like having them on ancestry and they are on gedmatch.