Hi Deb,
Info for Thomas Totty Mayo born c1823:
Baptism:
Date 31/3/1823
Name: Thomas Totty Mayo
Parents:
John Totty and Mary MayoFather's Occ: Cabinet Maker
This might be him with his parents in the 1841 census:
https://tinyurl.com/hkeflg8It looks like he married Mary Goodyear in Scotland in 1846 the name Totty mistakenly recorded as Fatty
https://tinyurl.com/h6bk7g2This looks like him with his family in 1851
https://tinyurl.com/zqwkc6t here are the birth registrations for the two children show in the 1851 census:
MAYO, JOHN TOTTY Mother's Maiden Mame
GOODYEAR GRO Reference: 1851 M Quarter in STOKE DAMEREL Volume 09 Page 503
MAYO, WILLIAM THOMAS Mother's Maiden Name
GOODYEAR GRO Reference: 1849 M Quarter in OF ST AUBYN IN THE COUNTY OF DEVON Volume 09 Page 494 Occasional Copy: A
I can't see him in 1861 but this looks like him in the 1871 census:
https://tinyurl.com/jbytmp4His death:
https://tinyurl.com/hbwhsy5Re: The death for Thomas Totty Mayo in 1848, this wasn't the son of Thomas Totty and Mary Mayo (nee Goodyear) their son was born and died in Devon in 1847. The Thomas Totty Mayo that died and was buried in 1848 in Newbury was 2 yrs old. I think that this might be his birth reg as the age fits but no middle name of Totty:
MAYO, THOMAS Mother's Maiden Name
BUTSON GRO Reference: 1846 M Quarter in NEWBURY Volume 06 Page 232
I will see if I can find any clue as to who his parents were next time I'm in town and also look for the baptism for Mary Paradise.
Sorry Deb, I completely forgot to give you this link earlier, re: a query I posted about Joseph and Martha Wade's marriage record:
https://tinyurl.com/gluod6yChris