Muss-just took notes of your comments. I concede that Hilda/Rita could be the same person as it was my mum who mentioned names and it's probable that I've confused the name, though my notes do go back 20yrs. Who knows. Anyway, I hope you are deriving some pleasure from these searches, as to me they are exciting. Many thanks for your diligent searching.
And not to leave you out, either, cupoflife as you are obviously having a bit of a dig into this little bit of history. Thank you. If the latest Colin Seale is the same person, and my dad, then he's aging! Other records do say 1889.

It enhances the mystery.