Hi Peter
Its all very complicated but I think the following is probably correct:
I know that Sarah Brooke Done was married to John Done because I have both their wills.
James Done (married to Sarah Sutton) is John's brother (also mentioned in both wills)
It would make more sense if the Dones you found in Bickley Hall
were James and Sarah as I know they did have a son John and he is still living in Bickley Hall in 1861. As I said I don't think John and Sarah B D had children as everything is left to nieces and nephews.
In 1851 Sarah Brooke Done could be living in Edge House, Edge, Malpas as this is where she writes her Will in 1854 - I don't know whether you have access to the Edge area for 1851 or 41 (I know you have told me in the past that parts of Malpas are missing from the 41).
I have no idea of Ralph's parents all I know is his Great Grandfather is Randle Brooke and that he is somehow related to Sarah Brooke Done (again based on Sarah's will - unfortunately she isn't specific as to how they are related)
I don't know if you have any ideas as to how I should proceed??

Thank you!
Sue