Thanks, all.
So it seems Henry and Eleanor/Ellen Wicken had the following children:
Thomas William Wicken 1838–1906
James Wicken 1840–1848
George Wicken 1842–
Mary Wicken 1844–1848
Eliza Wicken 1846–1848
James, Mary and Eliza's deaths are all recorded in the June 1848 quarter, while their father Henry's death is recorded in the September 1848. All sounds like a rather tragic period for the family. I wonder if it was disease or an accident that killed them?
After Henry's death Ellen had another daughter named Amy Amelia Wicken who was baptised on 8 September 1850 at Westerham just as the daughter of Ellen.
It would therefore seem she was illegitimate and not Henry's daughter and so raises the possibility that the March 1849 birth for female Wicken might be her birth, no that of Phoebe.
Thanks so much for looking,
Jon
I still have no idea what happened to Henry's younger siblings and would love to know what happened to them.
Thanks again,
Jon