Ooooooh i'll check this out Annie, thank you. I'v managed to get hold of my grandmas death certificate (1958) and it says on there that she is the wife/widow....so seems he left or she got rid of him. If this is him, she was a church goer, didn't drink-signed the pledge etc, so if he got in trouble it's possible she got rid. No aristocrats, royalty or millionaires in my ancestors ha ha x