Hmm - I'm not sure that James was the "marrying kind"!!
He's not easy to track down on the censuses etc, is he? I've found him advertising his wares as a music seller in Hastings in 1875. He was probably in Hastings in 1880 (James Beaney referenced as directing a programme of entertainment), and again in Hastings in Spt 1881 playing the organ at a harvest festival. Can't (yet) find him in the 1881 census though.
1884 papers have ads for a musical tour which includes one James Beaney, playing in Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Portsmouth, and Brighton.
1899 - he gave a concert in Bottesford - "a professional musician of much experience".
I can't see anything else.
I know this doesn't provide you with the names of any wife but at least we know he was in the country and therefore should be in the censuses!