whats on my mind abouth this one is his father not being frederick , but as you said he could of named his brother on the marriage , i also found a wilfred smith in 1911 census 1898 living with grandparents birth winlaton durham james gray 1855 bill quay and sarah e gray 1855 washington i have traced this family back to 1891 and there are 2 daughters missing in 1901 census names mary e gray 1875 and jane gray 1879 in 1911 they are living in winlaten