i have emailed her again this morning and waiting for a reply , on all that you have asked , but i have also asked her about her tree on it it has winfred as being born in hetton durham , when iv googled hetton it says its in n yorkshire 1896 but no more info on that apart from death 31 / 10 / 1975 and his marriage march 1923 easington i asked her did she get the hetton from his abode on marriage or some where else , and once i get answers i will post them on hear , i know iv searched ancestry at library [ my subscription ran out last week ] and family search and cant find anything possative iv even looked in 1939 register but cant find wilfred or his wife ellen or his daughter doris