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Offline Gurslad

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Keep Searching!
« on: Friday 05 August 16 13:21 BST (UK) »
I had been searching for my cousin for years, without success. All I knew was her parents had died and she had lost her husband, he died in France. So I thought she may be living there.I had not seen or spoken to her since the early 1950s. But being a male I messed about with my mobile phone and lost most things, so I found an old archive on my computer and cleaned it up before putting on my mobile. While looking through it I found my cousins name and address, plus phone number!.I think I got it when 192.com gave a free week and I searched for relatives then, but did not contact any of them.I thought will I ring the number or not, but after a couple of hours I rang it. Low and behold my cousin answered, I told her who I was etc and she remembered me and had loads of info. We talked for an hour. I had mistakes in her mothers side of the tree, I had her mother dying in 1996 but she died in 1990. Why couldn't I get it right her mother my aunt had married again, so I put all that right. The sad thing is she is wheelchair bound and is registered blind, I wanted to send her a copy of our tree but at the moment I don't know if someone cares for her who could share it with her. She was excited I rang and she enjoyed the info we exchanged. I told her that her niece and nephew in Australia wanted me to find you, she said her mother had gone to Australia in 1990 and spend some time with my cousins brother(He died 1999). Another terrible thing is my aunt died in 1990 a few weeks after she returned from Australia. I received photos and info from her niece and nephew yesterday, so I've go another 30 people to put in the tree.
So keep going, the brickwall will fall one day, with luck.
Jim
Wiltshire - Middleton - Pounds - Watts etc
Berkshire - Yates-Tame
Staffordshire- Yates
Gloucestershire - White-Holtham-Jones-Morse
London Area- Whitney

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Re: Keep Searching!
« Reply #1 on: Friday 05 August 16 13:30 BST (UK) »

I have found two new cousins (well to be fair one found me) since starting researching the family tree. None of us new the others existed but now that we do I am in regular contact with both and was lucky enough to be able to meet one on her trip to visit family here.  We swapped loads of info and have also corrected some mistakes on our trees.

They are out there, don't stop looking..
Paylet, Pallatt, Morris (Russia, UK) Burke, Hillery, Page, Rumsey, Stevens, Tyne/Thynne(UK)  Landman, van Rooyen, Tyne, Stevens, Rumsey, Visagie, Nell (South Africa)

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« Reply #2 on: Friday 05 August 16 13:48 BST (UK) »
That's a very moving story Gurslad

That's very true 3SD.

My OH was separated from his siblings as a child. We spent 15 years or so searching all over the UK for his sister. Obviously not well enough - she had been living 10 minutes away from us all the time. Unfortunately she had passed away but we do have nieces and nephews that have made my husbands family complete.

So yes - never give up - all good things come to those who wait :)
Luce, Tippett , Thomson, Dolling ~ Devon & Cornwall
Mocquard ~ London, France
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« Reply #3 on: Friday 05 August 16 14:22 BST (UK) »
It does turn up surprises. Another cousin and a cousin of the one I've just found and not seen since the early 50s. He lived just down the road from me in Wiltshire but we moved around Wiltshire a bit in the mid 50s, so lost contact with relatives. I visited the town that I live in now in 1966 and I've been held prisoner ever since. Joke. We've been married for 49 years the other day, so not a prisoner but a happy person.
Getting back to my other cousin, I live in Gloucestershire and one day I looked at Friendsreunited and he was on there. I contacted him and guess what he used to go to a shop 200 yards from me, we must have passed loads of times because we've lived in this house for 45 years. He came round one night and had a cuppa and we talked, he lived a couple of miles from us. But once again sadly he died not long after, so never saw him again.
As I said keep searching, a relative might live in the same street as you.
Wiltshire - Middleton - Pounds - Watts etc
Berkshire - Yates-Tame
Staffordshire- Yates
Gloucestershire - White-Holtham-Jones-Morse
London Area- Whitney


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« Reply #4 on: Friday 05 August 16 14:37 BST (UK) »

It is amazing the things you find out :)

My OHs sister socialised in the same place as us for 20+ years, she took a line dancing class there and my OHs mate took the same lesson ( OH only watched so he could take the mickey out of his mate) His sister also rode a bike to work every day - straight past my OHs place of employment. I will never understand how they didn't recognise each other - they were the spitting image of each other  :)

C'est la Vie  :)
Luce, Tippett , Thomson, Dolling ~ Devon & Cornwall
Mocquard ~ London, France
Census info is Crown Copyright http://www.nationalarchives.gov.uk