Thanks everybody. It s a puzzle I've made no headway with.
Yes this is Emily,
ADDED:
Births Dec 1879
Kingwell Emily Caistor 7a 678
And this is James,
James Hodgson
Mar qtr 1881 Kendal Westmorland
Volume 10b Page 696
I don't think he did actually stab her, just threatened her. I think he must have gone somewhere otherwise Nana wouldn't have sent the postal order every week for years. Whatever happened it caused a rift because John (other brother) never spoke to his sister in law (Emily) again, which was difficult as she still visited her sister for a while (Johns wife) but had to come when he was out of the house. Emily and James children didnt know what happened to their father, or at least some of them didnt as years later during a row it all came out, many year ago before I was born. The 1935 to 1955 time scale is from Nana although I can narrow it down further, she was evacuated 1939 and leave until 1945 so it was during this time, or maybe a bit before.