To add to the mix we have;
Robert CARRINGTON, age 25 (1826) born Kidderminster, Occp Cordwainer, lodging there in 1851
Census.
Down as Married.
FreeBMD has a Marriage Reg 1850
Looks like he married Mary Ann STEPHENS.
1851 she is a lodger, age 19, with a Son Frederick age 1
Mary Ann is born c 1832 Kiddrr
1861 she is calling herself a Widow and living with her Siblings.
Se now has a Son Alfred age 8;
John Stevens, 24, Head
Mary Carrington, 28, Sister, Widow, Tailoress, born Stourbridge
Alfred Carrington, 8, Nephew
Dinah Stevens, 17, Sister
Cant find any Death Reg for a Robert Carrington before 1861
Did he desert her?
The Robert above seems to fit the 1841;
Joseph Carrington, 35
Jane Carrington, 40
Robert Carrington, 12
Frederick Carrington, 11
Blanche Carrington, 8
George Carrington, 6
Jane Carrington, 3