« Reply #13 on: Friday 27 May 16 12:51 BST (UK) »
Marriage licence for Joseph Lee and Mary Ann Siggs in 1831 says both Joseph and Mary Ann were widowed. Licence was for the marriage to be solemized at Upminster. Its possible I suppose that could be Mary Ann the mother. You could do with seeing if the marriage was indeed in Upminster and if there is any similarity with the signatures.
There is a Joseph Lee born 1776 in Upminster on the 1841 Census but he's on his own. Unfortunately, of course, there is no marital status to see if he was a widower. He doesn't seem to appear on 1851 on a quick look.
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