Many people on Rootschat have said such lovely things, I agree with all that has been said.
Please send the poem and don`t forget you now have a whole host of non judgemental supportive friends, you honoured us by trusting such a personal problem to us, make use of your friends in the time to come.
Very best wishes and- The great Escape---marvellous, absolutely blooming marvellous

Viktoria.