So it is possible that the Aunt simply worked atthe hotel, rather than being her employer?
I guess the point of difference is whether she came to work at the hotel WITH her Aunt, or FOR her Aunt?
The only Edward WOOTTON/WOTTON I can see is Edward Bushell. He married Jane CROCKFORD in 1865 (reg 2532). But the marriage notice suggests her father lived in Victoria too?
The Argus, 26 Jul 1865
WOOTON—CROCKFORD.—On the 15th inst., at St. Peter's Church, Melbourne by the Rev. H. P.
Handfield, Edward Bushell Wootton, of Sandridge, son of the late Stephen Wootton Esq., of Margate, Kent, England, to Jane Crockford, second daughter of John Edward Crockford, Esq., of Sandridge.
http://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/5763878PS Edward B WOOTTON died in 1869 aged 39 and Jane remarried to Wm ALLEN in 1870.
EDIT: Jane died in 1874, aged 28, daughter of Robert CROCKFORD and Elizabeth CROXFORD [?], born Bucks. Is that a match??