I havent looked at your other query on Michael but noted these on FreeREG;
Marriages;
St Martin, Colchester, Essex
02 Mar 1783, Joseph SPOONER to Mary KNOPP, Licence. He signed, she used mark (does not say widr)
09 Jul 1786, Joseph SPOONER, Bachelor to Mary KING, Spinster. He signed, she used mark.
Grooms Parish St Botolphs**
Burial same Church;
10 Jul 1785, MARY Spooner, no extra details
Baptisms same Church;
29 Jul 1787 JOSEPH Spooner
09 May 1790 JAMES Spooner (birth 22 Nov 1788)
Parents JOSEPH/MARY
I noted your Michael Thomas was christened St Mary the Virgin at the Walls (+ siblings) on Familysearch.Org.
Just noting as there were 2 Joseph/Marys having children in same time frame in Essex.