Robert Sands - The only one I can find is - East Peckham, 1788 son of Robert and Eleanor. There are a few more Sands around, but only one Robert. There is a Richard, born 25 July 1790, St Werburgh, Hoo, but he died in 1791. Then another one in 1793, but I think he died.. Also a marriage at Rochester between Sands and Fleet, March 1812...but this was a Richard.
Usually, when the Navy realise that they have an apprentice, they are quickly discharged.
It looks like Robert was someones servant, as he went with the Temeraire into 'Ordinary'.....then he disappears.
I see that there was two Robert Sands at Trafalgar. The other one is a Private on board the Dreadnought, mother lived at Tunbridge.
Any thoughts on where to turn next? I am off to Kew at the end of January, tracing the Temeraire men...post Trafalgar.